View on Wife Swapping

View on Wife SwappingIn the 60's sex was wide open for youths between the age 15 thru to 25. Sex was something fun, easy and could be experimented with. A percentage older generations over their 40's had a problem in that as they were supposed to set a good example of what sex really meant. Sex was only for married couples. When couples got married they were supposed to settle down and be sensible and raise a family, but some folks in that generation decided that sex was fun and can be experimented with other married couples. So they started to participate in wife swapping. Wife swapping began with a little touching and kissing, and later advanced to petting and sex. Through to the end of the 60's and early 70's wife swapping was for one or two couples having sex between that small groups. Later the groups grew in size. Younger couples in their 30's also began to enter the wife swapping scene. Wife swapping soon changes rapidly into threesomes and then singles with married couples. As social attitudes changed and grew gays, lesbian and bi-sexual couples emerged. In the late 80's and throughout the 90's wife swapping clubs and organizations sprang out everywhere. Men and women began to like the swapping scene and term swapping was soon replaced by "Swinging".

RULE OF WIFE SWEPING

Rule of Wife Swapping Wife swapping has no set rules. It is entirely up to you and your partner to decide the boundaries and limitations. Being in wife swapping, couples need not to be married. They should at least have some history of being together and familiar with each others' needs and emotions. Here are some general rules if you are considering entering into wife swapping:
Good Communication - This is very critical due to the fact that you and your partner should be able to discuss each other needs and wants in a manner that it is the most comfortable with. If you are not happy about a situation you and your partner should be clear about it and why.
Confidence and Comfort - Sex is a very powerful part of human experience and is where pleasure is often found. Wife swapping can only be reached if you and your partner have each others' confidence and comfort first. It might be worth thinking about whether there are any potential situations that you feel you would be more or less comfortable in and then discuss these with your partner.
Trust, Sensitivity and Respect - Together as couple, trust and respect of each others view is very important especially if you are going to enter into wife swapping. Realistically, there will always be another partner, another personal ad, another dance, or another convention, but there may not be another chance to save an exploration into wife swapping if one of the partners becomes overwhelmed with it and forgets to treat his or her primary partner with sensitively and respect.The general rule of thumb is that wife swapping works best only when couples view wife swapping as an enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than to replace a fail one. Wife swapping is only a primarily social event. The normal social customs of greeting people and initiating a conversation are really not that different than at any other social interaction. The key social behaviors that tend to be appreciated among the wife swapping community are responsibility, friendliness, flirtatiousness, open-mindedness, and most importantly stability with regards to one's primary relationship. The pros and cons of whether or not you and your mate are compatible with the swinging lifestyle or even interested in it are many. Whatever you do, be sure that both of you are committed to it before ever trying it out

BENEFIT OF WIFE SWAPING

There are so many pros and cons in participating in wife swapping activities. Here are some of the pros:
Allowing you and your partner to explore your sexuality and sensuality in a new ways that it is not easily accepted in traditional communities.
It is a good way for bi-curious women and men to discover their potential bisexuality without becoming drawn in the lesbian or gay community where many felt uncomfortable or unwelcome.
It allows both men and women the opportunity to reject monogamy
It allows individual to explore and learn lots more about you sexual interests
It can enhance a couple's relationship and their commitments to each other
It helps to build up a strong level of trust and security
You can make many new friends
For many people watching, their partner being sexual with another is very arousing and hot Here are some cons on wife swapping:
It is not suitable for couples who are in a current relationship which is unstable and unhealthy.
Wife swapping and tear apart couples through insecurity, jealousy, or lack of honest communication
It is inappropriate for couples involve in wife swapping to cheat on their partner just like it is inappropriate for an individual in a monogamous relationship to cheat. After discussion of some of the pros and cons of wife swapping, you and your partner should be able to determine and discuss are you both ready for such relationships. Whether or not you and your mate are compatible with wife swapping or even interested in it, remember being involved in wife swapping all parties must agree that the relationship is completely open and honest.

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History of Wife Swapping part 2

It was first report during World War II (1941-1944) that wife swapping activity was known, especially among the US air force pilots. Those men were wealthy enough to move their wives close to the base. In those days nobody knew will there be a tomorrow and the fact that their fatality rate was extremely high against any other branch of service led to and unusual social scene where non-monogamy between these pilots' wives and other pilots became satisfactory. Before military actions they would organize parties with their colleagues and their wives to say good bye. In these parties colleagues will promise if anything happens to them that they will take care of their families, including the sexual needs of their wives. These arrangements persisted near the air force bases throughout World War II and well into the Korean War. By the time the Korean War has ended, these wife swapping groups had spread from bases to the nearby suburbs. By then there were also "key clubs". This is where husbands reportedly tossed their house keys into the pile in the center of the room where they were to draw at random by their wives. The owner of a selected key was the sexual partner for that evening. It was until not until the early 1950's that the media first reported these activities in the US and in the military and named it "wife swapping". The very first public decision of wife swapping was published in a magazine in the late 1957. This magazine was published in New York. It was an article issue of men's magazine called "Mr.". The magazine carried a short article with "semi-nude photos of bosomy female models" and this is when the team wife swapping emerged. The editor of "Mr." claimed it was an article that sparked off the epidemic of much similar articles across other magazines. "Mr." followed up with the original article with a correspondence section. By surprise many unforeseen aspects of the phenomenon emerged from reader's responses. The included such information of sex clubs especially devoted to trios, foursomes, or even large groups. It did not take long for "Mr." to see the opportunity to carry advertisements from people trying to contact other couples with a view to wife swapping. Over the next couple of years, a large variety of national and local magazines were catering to those in needs of wife swapping. During that time the prime way to meet other wife swappers was through personal ads. These publication offered column after column of such ads. Many of these ads had illustration nude and revealing photos of couples and hopeful singles.

History of Wife Swapping part 1

History of Wife Swapping Today what we called "a swinger lifestyle" was previously known as "wife swapping". This term is use to describe a form of recreational social and sexual intercourse between consenting adults. Swingers commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting with other male/female couples for sex and ongoing intimacy. It is simply being open about you sexual feelings and being adventurous about it. Wife swapping probably began since the dawn of time. From our history records at museums and in libraries we can find some sort of written documents from the ancient Rome and its' orgies. Those orgies they have was probably what we call today as "swinging parties".

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